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Sex on the first date?
Read why Balendu thinks it should be no rule not to have sex on the first date - but also not a must...
A fake Media World creating wrong Ideals in Girls’ Minds
As a father, Balendu contemplates how he wants his daughter to grow up with values, knowing that the...
Jealousy comes from Insecurity, not from Love
Why jealousy is not a sign of love but of fear to lose the other one. Balendu tells how it is also c...
Do not bring your Office to the Bedroom!
Balendu tells how it can affect even your love life if you bring emails, work talk and more not only...
Be ready to accept Change
When time, experience or science shows you that you were wrong, don‘t fight - but accept and go wi...
Anger Management - stop hitting that Cushion!
Balendu explains why letting out your anger does not reduce but instead increase aggression. https:/...
Know what you want - and don‘t be shy to say it!
"Let me think about it" - Balendu reflects the two reasons why someone says this sentence. https://w...
Why it is necessary to talk about Sex
Balendu tells why he is not afraid to talk about a topic that not everyone talks about - and why he ...
Independence and Freedom for a happy Relationship
Balendu tells how it can feel ‚too much‘ if the partner‘s happiness completely depends on you....
Don’t expect your Partner to read your Mind!
Balendu explains why we need to express our wishes and expectations in order to avoid disappointment...
Look at the Trigger of your Anger instead of starting a Fight!
Balendu explains how anger is often triggered by a feeling inside you instead of another person‘s ...
Corona shows us what is important in Life
Balendu suggests looking at what we got from this Corona time: a focus on values and health instead ...
A popular Relationship Dilemma
Balendu tells a joke about a common problem about partners: they act as though they were parent and ...
When will Corona finally go away???
Balendu answers: never! See here why... https://www.balendu.net...
Low Libido in a loving Relationship? Talk about it - and make...
Balendu tells of a couple who came to him for advice. They wanted to have sex - but then didn‘t fe...
Isolation with your Partner - Blessing or Curse?
Annoyed with your partner while being in isolation? Listen to Balendu‘s idea how to get along well...
Unconditional Love - a superficial Concept?
Balendu talks about the idea that love and friendship has to be unconditional and without expectatio...